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The Power Of Spending Time Alone

Parul Gupta
3 min readJul 20, 2024

I, Me, and Myself- The Art of Being Alone.

Alone | Solitude | Self-Care
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When I talk about being alone, I don’t mean lonely!

While loneliness can thrive even in crowded rooms, alone is about flourishing in solitude. It is about finding peace and inspiration in your own company. While others can find this thought unbearable, I love myself getting disconnected from the social world. My alone time offers me a lens through which I explore the inner self and everything around me.

Sounds like a paradox?

“Loneliness, longing, does not mean one has failed but simply that one is alive.” — Olivia Laing

Since Teenage, I have been told that sitting alone in the house and reading a book is so ‘uncool’. Especially on a weekend! By the age of 19, I started taking pride in the fact that I enjoy doing certain things by myself- travelling, reading, having morning coffee, and watching movies. This doesn’t mean I was lonely. I enjoyed the company of people as much but made time for myself too.

Alone Time = Creativity

Every time you find me staring blankly at the wall, it is just after that I write my best articles.

I can relate to artists who lived isolated lives to find meaning in their work. Alone has been a muse to artists who created the…

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Parul Gupta
Parul Gupta

Written by Parul Gupta

Through my journeys and stories, I explore the world’s wonders and share insights that inspire curiosity and growth.

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